Things I will probably regret

05/08/2016

things i will probably regret


I'm on a quest of loving myself, I wrote a similar post when I first started this blog, but I think by writing/typing this out, it will give me a clearer image of who I am and who I want to be. 

Saying yes when I wanted to say no, saying no when I wanted to say yes. Making decisions based on other people's happiness, not making any decisions at all. Spending too much time thinking I'm not pretty enough, smart enough, interesting enough or good enough. Worrying about embarrassing myself through my words or actions, worrying over other people's opinions of me. Not dancing when I want, singing when and as loud as I want, laughing when I want or crying when I want. Suppressing the fizzy feeling in my stomach when I'm excited, suppressing any emotions at all. Not speaking up: for my values, my beliefs or my opinions. Letting words warp my opinion of myself. Not acting in accordance with my soul, not spreading enough love, not smiling enough. Allowing people to make me feel inferior, shrinking myself to elevate another. Disregarding myself: my wants and my needs. Holding on to friends who bring nothing to my life, losing friends who bring love and happiness to my life. Not speaking with integrity, not acting with compassion. Not being who I am and who I want to be. Not living and trying as much as I know I'm capable of and not being as happy as I can be.


What might you regret in the future?

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6 comments

  1. If I wrote about what I will regret, it would basically be the exact same things! Saying yes when I wanted to say no is definitely a huge one for me & something I just experienced again a few days ago x

    Sara’sChapters

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    1. i found by writing this down, it made a clearer image of how I want to live my life - maybe if you do the same you will be able to say no without feeling bad because it's better for you and your own happiness? xx

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  2. Not making any decisions at all will be the death of me. :(

    aroseisinbloom.blogspot.com

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    1. Tell me about it! me and my boyfriend are terrible cause we're both so laid back coming to a decision takes days! x

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  3. Love this!
    Will perhaps one day (or even the next day when it's late) regret spending so much time online. But for now I like it here so future-me will just have to suck it up 😅

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    1. Thank you! haha oh yes, I forgot about that one lol. I'd only regret spending too much time online if it ruined real life relationships in the process xx

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